Do you ever catch yourself saying something your father said? At the time you heard it you may have rolled your eyes, shrugged, and vowed to never say anything like that to anyone. Yet, here you are, being influenced by others. And it is rippling through you.

Fred Smith was a wise man. He was an influencer. In his later years some of the key Christian leaders…businessmen, pastors, heads of ministries, dedicated Christians…would gather early on Saturday mornings to gain some of Fred’s wisdom. Some notes from one of those “Breakfast with Fred” meetings expounded on the impact of influence. Let me paraphrase some of Fred Smith’s words on the topic.

Influence never dies.

You may talk to me about the imprint of your parents, then say “but they are dead.” No, they are not, for you are still alive and their influence lives on through you…for better or for worse. We each ripple the pond of human life. Some make dainty circles while others make big splashes. Yet the movement of the water continues.

This is human immortality.

Have you felt the influence of others? Parents? A teacher who poured themselves into the students…into you? A coach…a pastor or church leader? They have helped shape you and mold you into who you are today. And there are those today looking to you, to learn, to grow, to be influenced by you and your life. Personally. Professionally. Spiritually.

Here are some things to consider, some questions to ask, as you think about influence:

  • Who is currently influencing me?
  • What influence am I exerting in my family, at work, and in the community?
  • How can I choose positive influencers?

Words of wisdom to remember: “Influence never dies.”

From the Old Testament to the New, God’s word directs us to be influencers, for the glory of our God.

Obey them [God’s statutes] completely, and you will display your wisdom and intelligence among the surrounding nations. When they hear all these decrees, they will exclaim, ‘How wise and prudent are the people of this great nation!’

Deuteronomy 4:6 NLT

The Apostle Paul’s letters to his young mentee Timothy, show again and again how Paul, influenced by Jesus himself, was rippling God’s influence onto Timothy.

Timothy, my son, here are my instructions for you…. May they help you fight well in the Lord’s battles. Cling to your faith in Christ, and keep your conscience clear.

1 Timothy 1 18-19 NLT

You ARE going to influence those around you. The question is…what kind of influence will you be? What will be the “ripple effect” of your life?

God’s best…