When problems keep coming!
Everyone in leadership has had those times. First, a small problem will come. Soon, that is compounded by another one, even bigger than the first. And then these challenges fall like great torrents of rain. Before long, we feel we are drowning, with no life raft in sight.
If you have been in leadership for any time at all, you have no doubt gone through a testing time like this. If you are in Christian ministry, you wonder why you must deal with these overwhelming challenges as you try to share God’s hope with those who need to know Jesus and His love.
I was recently reminded of the time Job questioned God. By human standards, he had every right to challenge his Lord about the disasters he experienced. The loss of his children, his wealth, and his health. And Job’s friends…even Job’s wife…were not much help. His wife told Job, “Curse God and die.” Not a lot of comfort.
Job had an interesting exchange with Almighty God. Listen to his comments about his multiple losses and see if you might also think along these lines as you face your challenges.
If only someone would listen to me!
Look, I will sign my name to my defense.
Let the Almighty answer me.
Let my accuser write out the charges against me.
I would face the accusation proudly.
Job 31:35-36 NLT
Here are some things to note:
- God listened to Job’s complaints and questions.
- God responded to what concerned Job.
- God blessed Job despite his questioning and lack of understanding.
At the same time, the Lord didn’t let Job’s wrong thinking go unchecked. In Job 38, He asked Job penetrating and sobering questions:
- Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth?
- Where were you when I set the oceans in their place?
- Where were you when I put the constellations of stars in position?
We see things from a narrow and simplistic viewpoint. God knows what He is doing, whether we see it or not. And Job, to his credit, replied to Almighty God in a way that should be our response when we question the Lord and our circumstances.
You asked, ‘Who is this that questions my wisdom with such ignorance?’ It is I—and I was talking about things I knew nothing about, things far too wonderful for me.
Job 42:3 NLT
We need to admit that we don’t understand God’s ways—they are not our ways. Yet we also need to remember that our Lord loves us greatly. After all, He sent His Son Jesus to die for our sins. What greater love could there be?
Problems? Challenges? They can seem to be overwhelming. But the God who put everything in our world in place is still in charge. He will listen to you. And He will bless you. That is His nature.
God’s best,
Timing is everything.
I was sitting at a signal light the other day, rather impatiently, I must admit. I was trying to “will” the light to turn green. No surprise. The light didn’t change when I wanted it to.
Many of us take that same attitude into our personal and spiritual lives. We want God’s will to happen right now on our timetable. It is not easy to see things from the Lord’s perspective.
One online site that deals with biblical questions mentioned the difficulty of waiting on God’s timing.
“Waiting on God is not only difficult; sometimes it seems impossible. We want things to happen in our own timing, according to our plans. But God doesn’t operate on our schedules, and expecting that He will… sets one up for disappointment.”
Our expectations and God’s plan don’t always align. I recall a challenging season of waiting for the Lord to open a door and show me a path…and waiting…and waiting…for almost a year. When God finally set things in motion, it was more than I could have hoped for. But to be honest, those many months were spiritually grueling. Yet, it was during this time that I experienced significant spiritual growth.
Dr. David Jeremiah wrote in one of his ministry blogs about the challenges faced when it comes to our timing versus God’s timing.
To wait on the Lord is to trust that God is at work, even when His timetable is longer than we’d like. It goes against our nature, but part of the problem is how we define “waiting.” Biblical waiting involves actively walking in step with God as He unfolds his plans. It is far more than sitting around, twiddling our thumbs.
So, if you are willing to wait, what do you do? First, be prepared for others to not understand why you are waiting. God’s voice speaks to you, but others may not hear or understand His will for you.
Pastor Charles Stanley has six things a person needs to do to wait on God successfully.
- You must trust God. Do you believe the Lord has a plan for your life? Then, you must trust He is working it all out for your good and His purpose.
- You must have patience. The Psalmist wrote:
Be still in the presence of the Lord,
and wait patiently for him to act.
Psalm 37:7 NLT
Dr. Stanley reminded us, “You never waste time waiting on God.”
- You need courage. Joshua didn’t know all that God had for him. The Lord had to remind Joshua repeatedly to be strong and of good courage.
- You need to be determined. Waiting when others urge you to do something takes determination. You must listen to the Holy Spirit over the voices of others.
- You need strength. The waiting task gets harder the longer it takes. Lean on the one who is our strength… Jesus.
- You must endure… until God moves.
The words of Isaiah ring true today for all of us who find ourselves waiting.
But those who wait on the Lord
Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint.
Isaiah 40:31 NKJV
So… when necessary…let’s wait… on the Lord.
God’s best,
What’s holding you back?
Let’s do something different today. Take out a piece of paper and a writing instrument. Got it?
Now…write down the top one or two problems that are keeping you from accomplishing your God-given task. You probably won’t have to think too hard. They are probably before you every day you try to lead and serve. Or, what problems are keeping you from being all God wants you to be?
Now, hold onto that paper while I tell you what God showed me as I was reading through Numbers in the Old Testament. Some of these passages are rather tedious. Counting men who could fight. Rules and laws for living lives that please the Lord. Sacrifices and gifts to be given to atone for sin and shortcomings. Many of them become repetitive. So, I often ask the Holy Spirit to teach me something through these passages.
I began to think of those Israelites who left Egypt and wandered for forty years in the wilderness. By many accounts, they numbered over two million people. That’s huge. As I figure it, there were probably four hundred thousand family units throughout the twelve tribes. And God gave Moses instructions for them to make sacrifices.
“…This is the special gift you must present to the Lord as your daily burnt offering. You must offer two one-year-old male lambs with no defects. Sacrifice one lamb in the morning and the other in the evening.”
Numbers 28:3-4 NLT
So, each family was to make this sacrifice. Four hundred thousand lambs in the morning. Four hundred thousand lambs in the evening. That’s eight hundred thousand lambs a day. And in five days…that’s four million lambs sacrificed. And this was to go on and on, week after week, month after month, year after year. Where did all these sacrificial lambs come from?
Someone calculated what it would take to feed these two million people. The primary food needed each day was over four million pounds worth. To bring that much food would have taken three trains of boxcars, each over a mile long. And for water…it would have required eleven million gallons each day and a freight train with tanker cars over eighteen hundred miles long… each day.
Of course, they didn’t have trains!
I could go on and on detailing the magnitude of these people’s challenges and what it would take to meet their needs—impossible, but God!
Now…grab that piece of paper you wrote on a few moments ago. Look at the items you wrote down. My question to you…how big is your problem…for God?
Over and over throughout God’s Word, we hear God saying:
Is there anything too hard for the Lord?
The question then is this: Do you trust God or not? Do you believe Him or not? Is He the same yesterday, today, and forever?
The writer of Hebrews has good instructions for us as we trod the often-difficult path of life the Lord has for us.
…let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.
Hebrews 12:1-2 NLT
OK…one more time…look at those things you wrote down. Then, look to Jesus and place those problems before Him. He has been waiting for you.
God’s best,
Learning how to juggle...
When I was in my preteens, I decided I wanted to learn how to juggle. I grabbed three old tennis balls and began to toss them into the air, trying to catch them and toss them up again and again. At first, I started the process over my bed so I wouldn’t have to chase the balls so far. Smart move for me. Eventually, I could do some very elementary feats of juggling. Then, I decided to add a fourth tennis ball to the mix. Disaster. I quickly learned that what I thought I could handle was way out of reach…literally.
It is always interesting to look at Jesus’ life and see how he lived out His purpose and ministry. I don’t see evidence of Jesus juggling. He was laser-beam focused on what His Father had for him to do. In His pre-teen days in the temple, he declared, “I must be about my Father’s business.”
When the disciples urged Jesus to stay in Capernaum, where the Lord had very successfully healed the sick and defeated demons, He announced to them:
I must preach the Good News of the Kingdom of God in other towns, too, because that is why I was sent.
Luke 4:42 NLT
While we multitask and try to juggle several ministry tennis balls, our time with the Lord suffers. We move between family, work, church, and community activities with scarcely time to breathe.
One secular study concluded:
A major hurdle in multitasking is keeping your focus razor-sharp. When your attention is divided among several tasks, it’s tough to concentrate fully on any one of them. This often results in a fragmented focus, diminishing your effectiveness on individual tasks.
While we may not be able to avoid giving attention to multiple projects and activities, we need to do as Jesus did…find quiet time to listen to the Father and stay on task for what God says is a priority.
Jesus said:
- I must be about my Father’s business.
- I must preach the Good News of the Kingdom of God.
What is the Father’s “business” for you?
God’s best,
Don’t be so professional!
Hearing that from me may come as a shock. For over a decade I have written and recorded these blogs on how to be more effective in media and leadership. Often, it means moving from the ranks of an amateur to that of a professional—learning techniques, applying principles, and building confidence in what you do…and why.
So, why am I now saying, “Don’t be so professional.”
Over twenty years ago Pastor John Piper wrote a book titled Brothers, We Are Not Professionals. Piper was pleading with pastors to make sure they didn’t abandon their God-given calling for the sake of professionalism.
“The mentality of the professional is not the mentality … of the slave of Christ. Professionalism has nothing to do with the essence and heart of the Christian ministry.”
I realized many years ago that we can become so professional in our ministry work that we don’t rely on God. I’ve sometimes said, “If we aren’t careful, God could take His hand off our ministry, and we might not notice it for several years.”
Well, what’s the point? What does it take to have a successful ministry? It is a matter of our focus and of our heart. What drives us in our work? Where do we turn for guidance? Do we read more professional books than God’s Word? Do we listen to leadership experts more than we listen to the Holy Spirit’s voice? Do we spend more time in seminars than in personal prayer with the Lord?
What is the focus of our lives and, therefore, our ministry?
The Apostle Paul set the Philippians straight on this topic. In Philippians 3 he writes:
We put no confidence in human effort, though I could have confidence in my own effort if anyone could. Indeed, if others have reason for confidence in their own efforts, I have even more!
Paul was saying, “I could run my credentials by you and show you how ‘professional’ I am, even more so than others.” Then he tells them:
I once thought these things were valuable, but now I consider them worthless because of what Christ has done.
Paul didn’t throw away all he had learned and all he had gained in wisdom and knowledge. He put it in perspective. And he nailed it down with these words:
…I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.
Paul’s perspective and focus was on God’s call on his life, not his personal achievements. It’s not about building a successful ministry; it’s about being obedient to the Lord and His assignment for you.
God doesn’t need your professionalism. He needs you to hear His voice and follow. Then, when your ministry achieves anything (by worldly standards), it will be for His glory.
So, what will you do today…this week…that may be less professional but more in the center of God’s will?
God’s best,
Who needs kindness?
In this frantic and pressure-filled world, what role could simple kindness play? A big one! Relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott talk a lot about kindness as they help people understand how to build strong and lasting relationships.
Never underestimate the impact of one kind word.
One of the Bible verses I was taught early in life was from Paul’s letter of instructions to his Christian friends in Ephesus.
And be ye kind one to another…
I’m sure my mother quoted that to me and my siblings when we were being anything but kind. It had a lasting impression on me. Today, reading the whole verse helps explain why we should show kindness to others.
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:32 KJV
My experience over the years has convinced me of the overwhelming value of this verse and the practice of a kind word aptly spoken. I have learned that it costs nothing on my part to show such kindness to others.
The Parrotts have also said consistency is valuable in building strong relationships.
“The solid commitment between faithful friends is established by thousands of seemingly insignificant commitments over the long haul.”
Paul pointed out to the Colossians that kindness was among the traits that would mark them as God’s special people.
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
Colossians 3:12 NLT
By the way, being kind is not the way of our world today. In the corporate world, in school, and even in families, most people don’t rank “kindness” as something to be desired in their lives. Some think it almost equates to “weakness.” Not so.
It begins with a heart that recognizes the gracious kindness the Lord has shown us, and it spills over to those around us. Someone has said, “A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.”
The eighteenth century American Quaker missionary Stephen Grellet urged us not to miss an opportunity to show kindness to others.
“I shall pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer it or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”
Someone around you may need a kind word right now. Don’t miss the opportunity to do something powerful and godly in their life.
God’s best,
Do something!
A leadership coach posed some questions in a recent blog. And, as intended, it got me thinking. Let me share one of the questions and see what you think.
As leaders, we are constantly confronted with challenges—often on a daily, if not hourly, basis. In these moments, we are faced with a crucial choice: to act or to remain passive. The fear of making a wrong decision can often lead us to the latter, forgetting that inaction is a decision in itself.
Dan Rockwell considers himself a leadership freak. His questions can help all of us who face decisions, big and small.
The question that hit me was this:
What happens if we press forward without changing anything?
It is often said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing again and again and expecting different results. Continuing to have a problem in your organization and just ignoring it, hoping it will go away, is not productive and does not advance the ministry or organization.
We can be frozen by fear. Fear of offending. Fear of failing. Fear of what others might think of us and our organization. Fear like that is rarely the path to good results or effective problem solving.
Some of Jesus’ disciples were watching as their Lord ascended into heaven. I wonder what was going through their minds. “Now, what do we do? Who will lead us? How can we be successful when our leader has gone?” They seemed frozen in place, not doing anything. Here is Eugene Peterson’s version of that account:
As they watched, he [Jesus]was taken up and disappeared in a cloud. They stood there, staring into the empty sky. Suddenly two men appeared—in white robes! They said, “You Galileans!—why do you just stand here looking up at an empty sky? This very Jesus who was taken up from among you to heaven will come as certainly—and mysteriously—as he left.”
Acts 1:11 MSG
The implication is that standing staring into the sky was not going to accomplish the assignment Jesus had given them. They needed to decide to press on and carry out His commands.
Leadership expert John Maxwell says, “When the leader lacks confidence, the followers lack commitment.” Standing and gazing upward or at the problem without seeking and implementing a solution is not good leadership.
Peter put it in spiritual terms, relating to our need to be on the alert. We have an adversary who delights in the inaction of those serving the Lord.
Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.
1 Peter 5:8 NLT
And Paul reminds us of the power of prayer as we deal with situations that can immobilize us.
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart.
Colossians 4:2 NLT
Facing challenges today? Look to Jesus. Seek His direction. Then act on it for His purpose and His glory.
Or, as we might say today…don’t just stand there. Do something!
God’s best,
So you want to be a leader?
When I was growing up, there was a simple TV show called “So You Want to Lead a Band?” People would volunteer to lead, step to the podium, take the director’s baton, and start directing the onstage band. It was usually funny and sometimes disastrous.
Have you wanted to be a leader? Have you wanted to command a group of people in a way that had an impact and accomplished something amazing? Or maybe the conductor’s baton was handed to you, and you weren’t prepared to be the leader. Most of us have been there at one level or another.
There is a somewhat humorous saying called “The Peter Principle.” One definition for this principle is this: “Employees are promoted according to their current progress rather than the required skills and aptitude.” Or, as the originator of the Peter Principle, Dr. Laurence J. Peter put it, “…people in a hierarchy tend to rise to “a level of respective incompetence”
That’s a bit scary, but it happens again. Leadership groups, including the Harvard Business Review, address this topic again and again.
Fred Smith, a mentor to ministry leaders, talked about leadership, which gives us a clear picture of what it is.
“Leadership is not a position; it is a function. It is not a title that grants power over others. It is a skill you perform, a service you render for the entire organization or institution.”
One of the reasons MEDIA Alliance holds leadership Forums around the globe is to help those who have stepped into the role of a leader be better equipped with the skills needed to guide the team God has given them.
Where do you find yourself? Has the Lord put you in a leadership position and you don’t feel adequate for the job? Join the crowd. Most of us have felt that way. It’s a good idea to read those first chapters of Joshua. This leader was following on the heels of Moses, who had led the children of Israel for forty years. I’m sure Joshua felt inadequate for the role. Maybe that’s why the Lord bluntly told Joshua:
“Moses my servant is dead. Therefore, the time has come for you to lead these people…”
Joshua 1:2 NLT
The Lord then repeated over and over, “Be strong and of good courage.” God went on to tell Joshua that He had guided Moses and He would guide Joshua in what to do to be the leaders the Lord needed for that day.
The same truth holds for you. If the Lord has placed you in leadership, and you don’t feel you are prepared…that you have risen to your highest level of incompetence, then be strong and of good courage. And look to the Lord for the wisdom needed for the task.
So… grab that conductor’s baton and a copy of God’s Word, and lead!
God’s best,
Spinning my wheels...
When Judy and I got married almost 53 years ago, we honeymooned near the Texas Gulf Coast. And as we started for home, I wanted to do what my family had often done on trips to Galveston and the Bolivar Peninsula. We pulled off the highway to cross a path through some small sand dunes to get to the beach. We wanted to spend some time walking along the beach, hand in hand, listening to the sound of the surf and the gulls as they flew overhead. Sounds romantic, right?
It would have been except for one thing. The sand dunes. My car got bogged down in the soft, dry sand and I couldn’t go forward or backwards. I tried to dig out the sand from around the wheels with my hands, but nothing worked. I was stuck.
After a while, a man came along with a shovel, and we tried to dig some more. We were still stuck. When I pressed the accelerator, the wheels would spin, but I could not go forward or backward. It was frustrating—and very unromantic!
Eventually someone in a truck passed by who had a chain and he was able to pull and jerk my dad’s 1963 Chevrolet and get us on to solid ground. I was thankful for a rather good ending to this true story.
I must confess, there have been other times in my life when I felt frustrated and it seemed like I was spinning my wheels. No matter what I tried, the end results were not good. Maybe you have felt that frustration, too.
In the book of Haggai, the Lord addressed His people with an explanation of some of their “wheel spinning” situations. Listen.
Look at what’s happening to you! You have planted much but harvest little. You eat but are not satisfied. You drink but are still thirsty. You put on clothes but cannot keep warm. Your wages disappear as though you were putting them in pockets filled with holes! Haggai 1:5-6 NLT
It sounds liked God’s people were spinning their wheels. And the Lord explained through Haggai what was going on, why His people were having so much trouble. They had been putting themselves and their comfort and prosperity above the Lord. Earlier God quoted what the Israelites had been saying. “The time has not yet come to rebuild the house of the Lord.” (v.2) Yet, He said they were living in luxury and His house was in ruins.
I wonder how often we have neglected the important things of the Lord in order to be comfortable. I wonder how many times we have overlooked God’s will and God’s way so that we might fulfill our own ideas. Have I put myself and my plans above those of the Lord? Have I said, in effect, “Lord, I have a better idea. I’ll get around to You and Your way later.”
Listen to God’s Word:
Commit everything you do to the Lord.
Trust him, and he will help you.
Psalm 37:5 NLT
Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed.
Proverbs 16:3 NLT
Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.
Proverbs 3:5-6 NLT
A bit later in Haggai we see God’s promise to His people when they decided to put Him first and they began work on the temple.
I am giving you a promise now while the seed is still in the barn. You have not yet harvested your grain, and your grapevines, fig trees, pomegranates, and olive trees have not yet produced their crops. But from this day onward I will bless you.
Haggai 2:19 NLT
Let’s stop spinning our wheels. Let’s be sure we are putting the Lord and His ways…His plans…first. And then let’s see what happens in our lives and our ministries as the Lord keeps His promises to us.
God’s best,
Who’s your hero?
Most of us have heroes. When we are young, we often zero in on sports stars or other prominent people. I’m old enough to have had Yankee baseball great Mickey Mantle as a hero. Not for his lifestyle but for his baseball ability.
Today, people choose heroes for different reasons: their fame, their skills on the court, gridiron, or pitch, maybe their wealth, or their business skills. Many times, our heroes are just good people. We admire their spirit, their joy in life, their confidence, and their love for the Lord.
Let me turn this around. Whose hero are you? Kind of a scary thought, isn’t it? That someone is watching us and wanting to be like us. As a leader chosen by the Lord to lead others, God has placed in your life the skills and attributes needed for that task. And others see that in you.
You may think that whatever they see is only a small thing. God can do much with a “small thing.” A. W. Tozer said:
“My flame may be small, but it is real.” When reading those words, leadership mentor Fred Smith noted, “A small flame can start a real fire better than a large neon sign.”
That flame in you can be powerful when you allow the Lord to use it to influence others.
The Apostle Paul was probably something of a hero to young Timothy. And Paul took his role as a mentor seriously. He told Timothy not to let his young age be a problem for himself or anyone else. People were looking to Timothy, and Paul told him:
Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity.
1 Timothy 4:12 NLT
In other words, be all that God designed you to be, and that “small” flame will bring amazing results in the lives of others.
Leadership expert John Maxwell talked about the influence leaders can have. And one of his key points is that an influencer connects with people. But the leader should be the one taking the initiative. Maxwell writes:
“For some reason, people in authority assume those below them are responsible for initiating contact. Their mindset is that ‘I’m the leader; others should come to me.’ Nothing could be more counterproductive to gaining influence.”
If you feel your flame of influence is small, don’t despair. Let God’s Holy Spirit fan that flame while you remain faithful to Him in all you do. Step up and step out. The Lord can use a hero like you.
God’s best,